Just tell your Hubby that it is fate, that this opportunity has come your way & it would be VERY unwise to 'look a gift horse in the mouth'!!!
I once went to look at a Lilac Siamese girl, just to be polite really, as I had only got a new kitten 3 months previously, so wasn't looking for another kitten. Because I knew the breeders Cousin & where his house was in Manchester, I arranged to go to his house first, so that we could go round to his Cousins house together.
But he made the 'mistake' of taking me up into his kitten room first, where I fell TOTALLY in love with an Oriental Blue girl, who someone was interested in!!
When we went round to see the Lilac Siamese, she wasn't a patch on the other kitten, who as far as I was concerned had 'Grand Champion' written on her forehead.
So I told the breeders Cousin, that I REALLY REALLY wanted his Oriental Blue kitten & he thought about it for a couple of days & then said that as the person that had expressed an interest in her, hadn't been in touch for several weeks,I could have her!!!
I called her Saffy & she fullfilled my dream by becoming a Grand Champion!!! Sadly I lost her when she was nearly 4 years old to liver cancer. But I DO NOT regret for one SECOND, the fact that I just could NOT resist her!!!
So you just grab the opportunity to have this Bengal kitten with BOTH hands, it is FATE & the chance may NEVER come your way again!!
Whilst you are waiting until she can come to you, could we PLEASE see a photo of her?